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I am a survivor of multiple abuses. I am a fighter for the under dog and the weak. I am pretty tolerant and tend to choose my battles carefully. Tend to spend time on things I can make a difference with and blow other shit off. My wife says I putter around the house looking for things to do. I am good at figuring things out, I am an idea person, and am one that people look to, to get things done or to light a fire under their ass by helping them and motivating them. I am a doer. I am a philosopher, been told that I say very profound things, and look at the big picture and work outside of the box. I watch and listen, I see how one responds to life and situations and have a gift of being able to put myself in someone else's shoes; therefore I do not do much judging I try to do understanding. To me, being to understand why something is a certain way or why someone does something helps the world to get along better or just allows one to say hey this is how the human pattern is I know this will probably happen, so there are no major life let downs since you know that most of the time shit happens and anything can be screwed without notice.